We are drawn toward extremes. We’re wired to want to explore the edges of
things. Going to extremes can be good, of course. In most situations, though,
it’s a hazardous practice. Prevailing culture tells us, “work longer hours;”
“sleep less;” “spend more money and stretch to a better lifestyle.” Such
messages are harmful and aren’t from God. He didn’t design us to live (for
sustained periods, at least) with extreme calendars, extreme finances, extreme
approaches to work or physical health, or extreme pastimes/interests. God
designed us to have margin.
Margin is the amount of time, money, whatever, we hold back—in order to
maintain productivity, stability, integrity. “Calendar margin” means reserving
time for rest, for solitude, for other people. “Financial margin” means living
within our means, even changing our lifestyles, if necessary. “Work margin”
means focusing on what we’re made to do, and excluding the things we aren’t.
Margin is a gift. While we can convince ourselves that there are valuable
things in extremes (more status, more comfort), there are things much more
valuable in margin: relationships, restoration, joy, peace. These are vital
inputs to healthy, productive lives, and things we must have in sufficient
quantities if we’re going to overflow love and provide protection to others. We
care for others by caring of ourselves. That’s been human—not some put-on,
fear-driven, self-centered counterfeit.
What’s the culture of your city or your workplace? What’s it calling you to?
Hurry? Worry? Stress? God’s calling you to a life of “love, joy, peace, patience,
kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control”. Can you admit
you’re built for these, built for margin? Now, can you make the wrenching,
practical decisions that’ll conform your life to God’s design, not the world’s?
Commit today, brother, to one concrete, measurable change.
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